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Healthcare workers

You spend your days caring for others. This is a place to care for you.

⏱ 6 min read📑 11 sections📚 15 sources✅ Reviewed October 2026

Caring for the carers

Why caring for patients for a living can wear on your mind and body.

Nurses, doctors, aides, techs and support staff care for people through illness, pain and death. Many also deal with long shifts, heavy paperwork, short staffing and patients or families who are scared and angry. Then they go home and are expected to switch off.

In a national CDC survey, close to half of health workers (45.6%) said they often or very often felt burned out in 2022. They also reported more days of poor mental health each month than in 2018 (4.5 days, up from 3.3).

Signs the job may be getting to you

  • Dreading your shift, or calling in sick more
  • Feeling numb, cynical or “used up” with patients
  • Feeling tired even after days off
  • Patients or moments replaying in your head, or bad dreams
  • Snapping at family or coworkers
  • Using alcohol or other things to “switch off”
Having some of these experiences doesn’t mean you have a mental health condition, and social media checklists are not a diagnosis. Only a qualified professional can assess what’s going on for you. Please talk to your clinical provider or therapist.
Work in police, fire, EMS or 911? See the sibling guide “First responders.” Are you a therapist or counselor? See “For therapists & counselors.”

Different roles, different loads

Nurses, doctors, aides and support staff. Tap a card.

Every role on a care team carries weight. Some carry the most hours at the bedside, some carry the final decision, and some carry the heaviest lifting for the lowest pay.

🤲 Aides, techs & support staffHard physical work, lower pay, and often less recognition.
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Nursing assistants, home health aides, techs, housekeepers and transport staff keep care running. Their work is physically hard and emotionally close to patients, yet they are often paid less and noticed less. NIOSH lists demanding physical work, injury risk and financial strain among the drivers of health worker stress.

Extra pressures

  • Bonding with residents or patients, then grieving them
  • Feeling unheard by managers
  • Injuries from lifting and moving patients
  • Money stress and working more than one job
Work with older adults? The guide “Caring for older adults: everyday skills” has care-specific skills and support.
🧑‍⚕️ Doctors & advanced practice providersBig decisions, long training, and a culture of “never show weakness.”
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Doctors, physician assistants and nurse practitioners carry heavy responsibility for diagnoses and decisions. Training is long and demanding, and many learn to push feelings aside to get through it.

Common pressures

  • Being on call and missing family events
  • Fear of mistakes and lawsuits
  • Heavy paperwork and screen time that takes time from patients
  • Worry that seeking mental health care will affect their license
The Physician Support Line offers free, confidential calls with volunteer psychiatrists for U.S. physicians and medical students: 1-888-409-0141. Check its website for current hours.
🧠 Mental health & social care workersHolding other people’s trauma stories, day after day.
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Counselors, social workers, case managers and peer specialists in health settings listen closely to people’s pain. The National Child Traumatic Stress Network calls secondary traumatic stress a common hazard of this work.

The guide “For therapists & counselors” goes deeper on vicarious trauma, supervision and leaving work at work.
👩‍⚕️ NursesClosest to the patient, for the longest hours.
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Nurses spend more time at the bedside than anyone. They notice every change, comfort families and often care for too many patients at once. Long and back-to-back shifts are common.

NIOSH training notes that long shifts are strongly linked with worse health outcomes for nurses, and that more than 40 hours of work a week is linked to risks for both nurses and patients.

A large U.S. study found that women who work as nurses died by suicide at about twice the rate of women in the general population. Reaching out early matters.

What can help

  • A buddy system to check in after hard shifts
  • Guarding sleep on your days off
  • Speaking up about safe staffing
  • Taking your break, even when it feels impossible

The pressures of the job

Short staffing, paperwork, long hours and suffering, and how they stack up.

Most jobs have stress. Healthcare has a special mix. NIOSH lists exposure to suffering and death, demanding physical work, long and unpredictable hours, heavy paperwork, little control over schedules, and money strain among the causes of health worker stress and burnout.

📋 Paperwork & little controlMore time on screens, less time with patients.
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NIOSH names high administrative burden and little control over schedules as drivers of burnout. Many clinicians say charting, prior approvals and inbox messages eat into the time they trained to spend with patients.

What can help

  • Ask your team which tasks could be shared or dropped
  • Batch inbox and charting time where you can
  • Bring workflow problems to leaders with a suggested fix
  • Protect at least part of your day for the work that feels meaningful
🕯️ Suffering & deathBeing close to loss, again and again.
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Health workers are with people at their most frightened and in their last moments. NIOSH lists exposure to human suffering and death as a core source of stress in this work.

What can help

  • A brief pause or moment of silence after a patient dies
  • Letting yourself grieve patients you were close to
  • Memorial or remembrance events at work
  • Talking with a chaplain, peer or counselor
Grieving a patient is not unprofessional. It is a sign you cared for a person, not just a case.
👥 Short staffingToo much work, not enough people, and no time to catch your breath.
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When teams are short, everyone does more. Breaks get skipped, shifts get longer and the chance to talk after a hard moment disappears. In CDC’s survey, the share of health workers who said there were often not enough staff rose from 25.7% in 2018 to 32.0% in 2022.

The same survey found that health workers who had enough time to finish their work had much lower odds of burnout. Staffing is not just a budget issue. It is a mental health issue.

If you feel like you are failing because there is too much to do, remember: the problem may be the workload, not you.
🙈 Putting yourself lastCaring for everyone except yourself.
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NIOSH notes that many health workers put others’ well-being ahead of their own, which can delay them from getting help. There is also a long history of stigma around health workers seeking mental health care.

You would tell a patient not to ignore warning signs. You deserve the same advice.

Moral distress & moral injury

When the system stops you doing what you believe is right.

The American Association of Critical-Care Nurses describes moral distress as being unable to do the right thing because of limits in the system: not enough staff, beds, time or support. You know what the patient needs, but you can’t give it. Over time, that gap can wear down your sense of meaning.

Moral injury is a deeper wound that can follow an event that goes against your values. The VA’s National Center for PTSD gives health care examples like making life-and-death choices about who gets care first, or believing you should have saved a patient who died.

😔 How it can feelFrustration, guilt, anger and a sense of betrayal.
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AACN lists frustration, feeling inadequate, sadness, fear, powerlessness, anger and blunted emotions, along with physical effects like poor sleep, headaches, fatigue and stomach upset.

According to the VA, moral injury can also bring shame, trouble forgiving yourself, and feeling betrayed by leaders or systems. It is not a diagnosis. It is a way of describing a wound to your sense of right and wrong.

🌱 What helpsNaming it, speaking up and being heard.
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AACN suggests

  • Connect with a mentor you trust
  • Lean on coworkers, friends and family, and tell them when you are struggling
  • Learn the physical and emotional warning signs of moral distress
  • Pay attention to your inner voice when something feels wrong
  • Speak up about how resources are shared, and ask for open decisions
  • Use your ethics committee, employee assistance program or a counselor

Small steps

  • Find ways to act on your values, like mentoring or pushing for change
  • Name what happened and what value it went against
  • Separate what you controlled from what you didn’t
Use the “Values & moral stress” worksheet, and see the Moral injury guide for much more.
Feeling moral pain shows that your values are alive. That is something to protect, not something to be ashamed of.

After a mistake or bad outcome

When a patient is harmed, the clinician can be hurt too.

When a patient is harmed by an error or an unexpected outcome, the patient and family come first. But the clinician involved can also be deeply shaken. Researchers call this being a “second victim.” The federal patient safety agency AHRQ estimates that as many as half of all clinicians will be involved in a serious adverse event at least once in their career.

🌀 Common reactionsGuilt, shame and losing faith in yourself.
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AHRQ describes clinicians feeling responsible for the outcome, along with shame, anger, a sense of failure, low mood, feeling inadequate and losing confidence. Some go on to have trauma reactions, such as replaying the event.

It might sound like

  • “Everyone knows. They all think I’m dangerous.”
  • “I can’t stop going over it.”
  • “Maybe I shouldn’t be doing this job.”
🛤️ The road to recoveryRecovery often comes in stages.
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One well-known model, based on interviews with clinicians, describes a path through chaos right after the event, intrusive reflections, restoring personal integrity, enduring the review process, getting emotional first aid, and then moving on. Some people leave the field, some survive, and some come out stronger.

A review or inquiry can feel like a second blow. Feeling upset during that process is normal.
🫂 Support that helpsPeers, fast support and a fair process.
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AHRQ describes a three-tier model: support from your own unit, trained peer supporters, and fast access to professional counseling. In one survey, clinicians said they most wanted one-to-one peer support. Fast access to help after an event appears to be especially important.

What you can do

  • Ask whether your organization has a peer or “care for the caregiver” program
  • Remember that one event does not define your whole career
  • Talk with someone you trust within the first days
  • Use the “After a hard outcome” worksheet to sort out what happened
🤝 If it happened to a coworkerA few words can make a big difference.
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Try this

  • Check in again a week later, not just that day
  • Don’t gossip about the event
  • Offer practical help with the rest of their shift
  • Say: “That sounds really hard. How are you doing?”

Violence & harassment at work

Being yelled at, threatened or hurt while trying to help.

Health workers are often on the receiving end of people’s fear, anger and pain. The U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics found that healthcare workers accounted for 73 percent of all nonfatal workplace injuries and illnesses due to violence in 2018. The World Health Organization says most violence against health workers comes from patients and visitors.

Harassment is rising too. In CDC’s survey, health workers who reported harassment at work rose from 6.4% in 2018 to 13.4% in 2022. Those who were harassed had much higher odds of anxiety, depression and burnout.

🧘 After an incidentLook after yourself, even if you weren’t badly hurt.
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Try this

  • Get checked for injuries, even ones that seem small
  • Notice if you feel jumpy or on guard in the days after
  • Take a short break before going back on the floor if you can
  • Talk it through with a coworker, peer supporter or counselor
Abuse is never “just part of the job.” Being scared or shaken afterward is a normal reaction.
📝 Report itEvery report helps leaders see the pattern.
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OSHA notes that many more incidents of violence in healthcare probably go unreported. Reporting every incident, even “small” ones, helps show how big the problem is.

What can help

  • Ask what support and leave options are available
  • Check in with coworkers after a scary moment
  • Report through your workplace system and keep your own notes
  • Talk with your supervisor about a safety plan
🏥 What workplaces can doSafety is a system job, not just yours.
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CDC suggests strong workplace policies against harassment and violence, along with training supervisors to support their teams.

Things to ask for

  • A clear, simple way to report
  • Enough staff so nobody works alone with a high-risk patient
  • Follow-up support after every incident
  • Training on calming tense situations

Sleep & shift work

Protecting rest when your schedule fights your body clock.

Sleep is when the brain sorts through the day and calms the stress system. When sleep is short or broken, everything feels harder: mood dips, patience runs thin, and hard memories feel louder. For shift workers, good sleep takes planning.

NIOSH training for nurses notes that a review of research found a strong link between long shifts and worse health for nurses, and it points to a recommendation of no more than 12 hours in any 24-hour period and 60 hours in any 7 days.

🔄 Rotating shiftsSmall changes help your body adjust.
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Changing between days and nights confuses your body clock. NIOSH notes that research on long and rotating shifts is mixed, but long hours combined with short sleep are linked to worse health.

Try this

  • A planned short nap before a night shift can help alertness
  • Ask for schedules that rotate forward (days → evenings → nights) if possible
  • Get daylight when you wake up
  • Shift your bedtime a little before a change
🛏️ Sleeping after a night shiftMake daytime feel like night.
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Try this

  • Keep a short wind-down routine, even 10 minutes
  • Make your room dark, cool and quiet (blackout curtains, earplugs, fan)
  • Put your phone on do-not-disturb and tell family your sleep hours
  • Wear sunglasses on the drive home to signal “nighttime” to your brain
Avoid caffeine in the last few hours of your shift so it doesn’t keep you awake when you get home.
🌀 When your mind won’t switch offCalming a busy brain after a hard shift.
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Try this

  • A warm shower to mark the end of the workday
  • Avoid using alcohol to fall asleep; it breaks up sleep later in the night
  • Slow breathing: in for 4, out for 6, for a few minutes
  • Write down what is on your mind, then close the notebook
If nightmares or sleeplessness last for weeks, talk to your clinical provider. Sleep problems are very treatable. See the Sleep & mental health guide for more.

Burnout & compassion fatigue

When the job asks for more than it gives back.

Burnout is what happens when work stress goes on for too long without enough recovery. People often feel worn out, cynical or distant from their work, and less effective. In CDC’s survey, the share of health workers who felt “used up” very often rose from 11.6% in 2018 to 19.0% in 2022.

🪫 Compassion fatigueYour caring battery runs low.
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Compassion fatigue can feel like you have nothing left to give. You still want to help, but you feel flat, irritable or numb with patients. Some people feel guilty because they “should” care more.

It might sound like

  • “Another sad story. I can’t take it.”
  • “I just don’t feel anything anymore.”
  • “I used to love this job.”

What can help

  • Notice it without judging yourself
  • Refill with things that bring you joy outside work
  • Share the load: talk with peers who understand
  • Take real time off and protect it
Compassion fatigue is a sign you have been caring a lot, for a long time. It can get better with rest and support.
🌫️ Secondary traumaOther people’s trauma starts living in you.
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Secondary traumatic stress is emotional distress that comes from hearing about or seeing another person’s trauma. It can look like images that pop into your mind, bad dreams, feeling on edge, or avoiding reminders.

What can help

  • Grounding skills, like naming five things you can see
  • Limiting extra trauma exposure off duty, such as graphic news
  • Supervision or debriefing where you can talk about the hard parts
  • Talking with a therapist who understands health workers
🔧 Burnout is mostly about the jobWhat protects people is mostly how work is set up.
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CDC found that health workers who trusted management, had a supportive supervisor and had enough time to do their work had much lower odds of burnout. Self-care helps, but it can’t fix a broken system.

For a full guide to burnout, including signs, causes and recovery steps, see the Understanding burnout guide.

How workplaces & coworkers can help

Fixing the job, not just the worker, and looking out for each other.

What CDC suggests workplaces do

  • Address workloads and staffing where possible
  • Build trust between staff and management
  • Create a “psychologically safe” place where people can speak up
  • Have strong policies against harassment and violence
  • Involve workers in decisions that affect them
  • Train supervisors to support their teams
📘 NIOSH Impact WellbeingA free CDC campaign to help hospitals reduce burnout.
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Impact Wellbeing is a NIOSH campaign made with the Dr. Lorna Breen Heroes’ Foundation. It focuses on prevention: fixing the causes of burnout before people get unwell.

It offers

  • A guide that helps hospital leaders make system-level changes
  • Resources workers can use to start conversations and ask for change
  • Tips for talking about burnout, moral injury and mental health at work
🧑‍💼 What a good supervisor doesSmall actions from leaders make a big difference.
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Try this

  • Check in after hard shifts or patient deaths
  • Make it easy to swap shifts for appointments
  • Protect breaks and time off
  • Share your own experience of getting support
  • Thank people specifically for their work

CDC found that health workers with supportive supervisors had much lower odds of burnout.

🤗 Looking out for a coworkerYou don’t need to be their therapist to help.
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Ways to help

  1. Notice changes and mention them gently: “You seem more tired lately. How are you really doing?”
  2. Listen without rushing to fix it.
  3. Offer practical help: cover a task, bring food, walk them to their car.
  4. Encourage support: the EAP, a peer program, or a confidential line.
  5. Check in again a few days later.
❤️ For families & friendsSupporting a health worker you love.
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Ideas that help

  • Agree on a simple signal for “hard shift, I need quiet”
  • Avoid “I could never do your job,” which can make them feel more alone
  • Look after your own stress, too
  • Plan small, regular time together that work can’t take
Communities can help too: meals from neighbors, thank-you notes and local events that honor care workers all send the message “we see you.”

By the numbers

What research tells us about health workers’ mental health.

United States

45.6%of U.S. health workers said they often or very often felt burned out in 2022 (CDC Quality of Worklife Survey).
6.4% → 13.4%Health workers reporting harassment at work, 2018 to 2022 (CDC).
3.3 → 4.5Average days of poor mental health in the past month for health workers, 2018 to 2022 (CDC).
44.2%of health workers in 2022 were somewhat or very likely to look for a new job in the next year (CDC).
25.7% → 32.0%Health workers saying there were often not enough staff, 2018 to 2022 (CDC).

Safety & stress

73%of all nonfatal U.S. workplace injuries and illnesses due to violence in 2018 happened to healthcare workers (BLS).
1 in 2As many as half of all clinicians will be involved in a serious adverse event at least once in their career (AHRQ).
17.1 vs 8.6Suicide rate per 100,000 among women who are nurses, compared with women in the general population, 2017–2018 (JAMA Psychiatry study).

World

8–38%of health workers suffer physical violence at some point in their careers (WHO).
11 millionWHO projects a shortfall of 11 million health workers worldwide by 2030, mostly in low- and lower-middle-income countries.
67%of the world’s health and social care workforce are women (WHO).
Surveys and studies measure things in different ways, so numbers vary. What they agree on: health workers carry a heavy load, and better working conditions and support make a real difference.

When and where to get help

Signs it’s time to reach out, fear for your license, and who to call.

Reach out if…

  • Memories, nightmares or feeling on edge last more than a few weeks
  • You are drinking or using other things to cope
  • You dread work or feel numb most of the time
  • You feel hopeless, trapped, or like a burden
  • You have any thoughts of hurting yourself or someone else
  • Your relationships are suffering
🤐 “Getting help will cost me my license.”A common fear, and one that is being tackled.
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NIOSH says there is a strong and long-standing stigma around health workers seeking mental health care, and its work aims to remove barriers to getting care. The Impact Wellbeing campaign helps hospital leaders make it safer to ask for help.

Ask before you start

  • Is this service separate from my employer?
  • What, if anything, would ever be shared, and when?
  • Who will see my information?
Untreated stress and burnout are far more likely to hurt your work than getting support. If you are unsure, start with a confidential outside line or a private therapist.
🗣️ Therapies that helpTalk therapy works for health workers too.
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Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) helps with stuck thoughts like “I should have done more,” worry, low mood and sleep. Trauma-focused therapies, such as cognitive processing therapy, prolonged exposure and EMDR, help when hard memories won’t let go. For anything medical, consult with your clinical provider.

It is fine to ask a therapist, “Have you worked with health workers before?” See the Therapies for trauma guide for more on each therapy.

Where to start

  1. Talk to your clinical provider, or a therapist who works with health workers.
  2. Contact your employee assistance program, peer support or “care for the caregiver” program.
  3. U.S. physicians and medical students can call the Physician Support Line, free and confidential: 1-888-409-0141.
  4. Tell one person you trust how you are really doing.
Outside the U.S.? Find free, confidential helplines in your country at findahelpline.com, and ask your hospital or professional body about staff support.
If you’re in crisis, call or text 988 (U.S.), or text HOME to 741741. If a life is in danger, call 911.

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My shift-work sleep planPlan your rest around your schedule, so sleep doesn’t get left to chance.
Values & moral stressWhen work clashes with what you believe is right, sorting it out on paper can ease the weight.
After a hard outcomeAfter a mistake, a near miss or a patient outcome that haunts you, this helps you be fair to yourself.
My end-of-shift resetA small routine to leave work at work and arrive home as yourself.
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Sources

  1. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), MMWR (2023). Vital Signs: Health Worker–Perceived Working Conditions and Symptoms of Poor Mental Health — Quality of Worklife Survey, United States, 2018–2022
  2. National Institute for Occupational Safety and Health (NIOSH), CDC. Risk Factors for Stress and Burnout
  3. National Institute for Occupational Safety and Health (NIOSH), CDC. Impact Wellbeing
  4. National Institute for Occupational Safety and Health (NIOSH), CDC. Work Organization Strategies to Promote Alertness and Health in Nurses: Extended Shifts
  5. American Association of Critical-Care Nurses (AACN) (2025). AACN Position Statement: Moral Distress in Times of Crisis
  6. U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs, National Center for PTSD. Moral Injury and PTSD
  7. Agency for Healthcare Research and Quality (AHRQ), Patient Safety Network (2025). Second Victims: Support for Clinicians Involved in Errors and Adverse Events (Primer)
  8. U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics (BLS). Fact Sheet: Workplace Violence in Healthcare, 2018
  9. Occupational Safety and Health Administration (OSHA). Healthcare: Workplace Violence
  10. World Health Organization (WHO). Preventing violence against health workers
  11. World Health Organization (WHO). Health workforce
  12. JAMA Psychiatry (Davis, Cher, Friese & Bynum) (2021). Association of US Nurse and Physician Occupation With Risk of Suicide
  13. National Child Traumatic Stress Network (NCTSN). Secondary Traumatic Stress
  14. Physician Support Line. Physician Support Line
  15. Rural Health Information Hub (supported by HRSA). Physician Support Line (resource listing)

This guide is for education and self-care. It is not a diagnosis or a substitute for professional care. Please talk to a counselor or clinical provider about your health. Reviewed October 2026.

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