The first years after service: staying safe through the transition
Leaving the military is a big move. With a plan, your people and help lined up before you need it, you can land safely.
By the numbers
Key timelines for transition, and signs that support is working.
Timelines to know
Signs of progress
Why the first years matter
A time of big change, and a time when support makes a difference.
Leaving the military changes your job, routine, health care, home and team, often all at once. Most veterans make this move and build good lives. But stress can pile up, and that’s when a safety net matters most.
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In a study of nearly 1.9 million service members who left from 2010 to 2017, suicide risk was highest in the first year after leaving, generally peaking 6 to 12 months out. Risk stayed higher for several years after that.
This doesn’t mean something will go wrong. It means it’s worth planning for this time the way you’d plan any mission.
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Risk was highest for the youngest people leaving, and for those with less than two years of service. The researchers suggested prevention may be especially helpful for these groups.
If that’s you, or someone you love, it’s even more important to line up support early.
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For veterans who left service in 2023, the suicide rate in the first year after leaving was the lowest since 2016. VA now reaches out to newly separated veterans through Solid Start.
What changes all at once
Structure, team, health care, money and home. Tap any card.
VA notes that leaving service can create stress that shows up in different ways. Seeing the changes clearly makes them easier to plan for.
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Without a set routine, days can blur together. Sleep, meals and exercise can slip, and that can affect your mood.
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Feeling connected to other people protects against suicide. After service, your closest friends may be scattered across the country.
Staying in touch with even one or two people you served with can make a real difference.
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VA advises applying for VA health care when you receive your separation or retirement orders, so there’s less of a gap.
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Financial loss was one of the common risk factors in VA reviews of recent patients who died by suicide. Planning a money cushion and a job search early can ease pressure.
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Many families move after service. Partners and kids adjust too, and relationship strain is common during big changes.
Before you leave: setting up your safety net
Programs to use while you’re still in, and right after.
The best time to line up support is before you need it. These programs are built for the transition. Tap each one.
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TAP gives service members and their families information and tools for leaving the military. The VA Benefits and Services course covers health care, disability compensation, education, housing and community connection.
An online version is open to veterans, family members and caregivers too.
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VA recommends applying when you receive your separation or retirement orders. Combat veterans discharged on or after September 11, 2001, get 10 years of enhanced eligibility, so apply right away.
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Solid Start tries to reach newly separated veterans during days 0–90, 91–180 and 181–365. Calls cover health care, mental health resources, education, housing and more. You can also schedule a call.
The Solid Start line is 1-800-827-0611, weekdays 8 a.m. to 9 p.m. ET. Keep your contact details up to date on VA.gov so they can reach you.
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Retired and honorably discharged members and their immediate families can use Military OneSource until 365 days after leaving. It offers free, confidential non-medical counseling, up to 12 sessions per issue, plus financial counseling.
Call 800-342-9647, 24/7.
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Each VA medical center has a Post-9/11 Military2VA (M2VA) case management team. They help transitioning service members, veterans, families and caregivers navigate VA health care and reach their goals.
The first 90 days: landing safely
Simple steps that steady you in the first months.
A landing checklist
- Set a daily routine: a wake-up time, movement, meals and a bedtime.
- Pick two or three people you’ll check in with every week, including at least one veteran.
- Answer the Solid Start call, or schedule one yourself.
- Book a first health care appointment, and mention sleep, pain, mood or drinking.
- Save the Veterans Crisis Line in your phone: dial 988 then press 1, or text 838255.
- Make your home safer during stressful times, with time and distance from anything that could cause harm.
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Sleep problems were one of the most common risk factors in VA reviews. VA offers free sleep help, including the online Path to Better Sleep program and the CBT-i Coach app.
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A job application, a class, a workout plan or a project at home can give days shape. Purpose doesn’t have to be big to help.
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The National Center for PTSD suggests planning ahead for anniversaries, such as Memorial Day or the date you lost a friend. Spend the day with people, do something meaningful, and tell someone what you need.
Getting mental health care during transition
You may be able to get help sooner than you think.
You don’t have to wait until you’re in crisis, or until all your paperwork is done. VA says you don’t need to be enrolled in VA health care to get free VA mental health services.
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You can walk into or call any VA medical center, day or night, or any Vet Center during clinic hours. All VA health care facilities provide same-day emergency mental health care.
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VA says its mental health care is available no matter your discharge status, and it can help with sleep problems, anger and readjusting to civilian life.
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Vet Centers offer free, confidential counseling to eligible veterans, service members and families, including help with the move from military to civilian life. The Vet Center Call Center is 1-877-927-8387, 24/7, staffed by combat veterans and family members.
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Under the COMPACT Act, eligible veterans can get emergency suicide-prevention care at any emergency department at no cost.
Your warning lights
Early signs that transition stress is building, and when to act.
Think of these like warning lights on a dashboard. One light doesn’t mean disaster, but it’s a signal to slow down and get support.
Early signs of transition stress (VA)
- Avoiding people
- Constant distraction, like hours of games or scrolling
- Feeling overwhelmed
- Getting angry easily
Signs to reach out now
- Drinking or using drugs more
- Feeling excessive guilt, shame or a sense of failure
- Feeling there is no reason to live, or no way out
- Taking risks without thinking
- Withdrawing from family and friends
Everyday safety habits for the transition
Small habits that lower risk while life is changing.
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VA says putting time and space between a crisis and action gives crucial moments to get through. Many veterans choose safer storage during stressful times, and VA offers free cable gun locks.
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Increasing alcohol or drug use is a warning sign the Veterans Crisis Line asks people to take seriously.
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VA encourages veterans to connect with peers and do buddy checks on each other. Checking on a buddy can help you as much as them.
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Losing a home is a heavy stress. Housing & homelessness help for veterans explains how to get help before it becomes a crisis.
For families: helping someone land
How partners, parents and friends can help through the transition.
Families go through the transition too. You may notice changes before the veteran does. Your steady presence is one of the best protections they have.
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The online TAP VA Benefits and Services course is open to family members and caregivers. Immediate family can also use Military OneSource until 365 days after the service member leaves.
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Keep an eye out for the warning lights above, and check in directly if you’re worried.
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Spouses may lose a community or restart a career. The Veterans Crisis Line supports family and friends, and Vet Centers offer family counseling.
How community helps
A new unit, a new mission and people who get it.
Feeling connected to others and to community protects against suicide. After service, building a new circle is one of the most protective things you can do.
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Veteran service organizations, sports and outdoor groups, and volunteer teams can offer the camaraderie many miss. Vet Centers also run group counseling.
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Through VA’s Fox suicide prevention grants, about 17,000 veterans, service members and family members got services from community groups in 2025.
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- Employers: share the Veterans Crisis Line and support time off for care
- Faith groups: welcome new veterans and know where to point people for help
- Schools: connect student veterans with campus veteran services
- Everyone: learn the free S.A.V.E. suicide prevention training from VA and PsychArmor
When and where to get help
Crisis lines, transition help and support outside the U.S.
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- Emergency: 911
- Vet Center Call Center: 1-877-927-8387, 24/7
- Veterans Crisis Line: dial 988 then press 1, text 838255, or chat at VeteransCrisisLine.net
Veterans Crisis Line TTY: 1-800-799-4889. You don’t have to be enrolled in VA benefits or health care to connect.
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- Military OneSource: 800-342-9647, 24/7, up to 365 days after leaving
- VA Solid Start: 1-800-827-0611, weekdays 8 a.m. to 9 p.m. ET
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The Veterans Crisis Line website lists numbers for each overseas region, and its online chat works from anywhere.
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findahelpline.com lists free, confidential helplines by country. Veteran suicide prevention lists veterans’ lines in Australia, Canada and the UK. In an emergency, call your local emergency number.
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Sources
- U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs (2026). 2026 National Veteran Suicide Prevention Annual Report
- Ravindran C, Morley SW, Stephens BM, Stanley IH, Reger MA (VA Office of Mental Health and Suicide Prevention) (2020). Association of Suicide Risk With Transition to Civilian Life Among US Military Service Members (JAMA Network Open)
- U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs, DiscoverVA. Transition Assistance Program (TAP)
- U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs, DiscoverVA. VA Transition Programs
- U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. VA Solid Start (VASS)
- U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs, VA Mental Health. Veterans Transitioning From Service
- U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. Eligibility for VA health care
- Military OneSource (U.S. Department of Defense). Eligibility
- Military OneSource (U.S. Department of Defense). Military OneSource
- My Air Force Benefits (U.S. Department of the Air Force). Military OneSource (Benefit Library)
- U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. Post-9/11 M2VA Locator page (Post-9/11 Transition and Case Management)
- U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. Life Transitions (Don’t Wait. Reach Out.)
- U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. Lethal means safety (Don’t Wait. Reach Out.)
- U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs, VA Mental Health. Suicide Prevention: Steps and Resources
- U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. Veterans Crisis Line
- Veterans Crisis Line (U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs). Signs of Crisis
- U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs, National Center for PTSD. Trauma Reminders: Anniversaries
- U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. Vet Centers (Readjustment Counseling)
- U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs, Vet Centers. Vet Center Call Center 877-927-8387
- Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC). Risk and Protective Factors for Suicide
- U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs, VA News (2018). VA and PsychArmor Institute Offer Online Suicide Prevention Training
- Find A Helpline (ThroughLine). Find A Helpline
This guide is for education and self-care. It is not a diagnosis or a substitute for professional care. Please talk to a counselor or clinical provider about your health. Reviewed October 2026.

