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The first years after service: staying safe through the transition

Leaving the military is a big move. With a plan, your people and help lined up before you need it, you can land safely.

⏱ 4 min read📑 11 sections📚 22 sources✅ Reviewed October 2026

By the numbers

Key timelines for transition, and signs that support is working.

Timelines to know

1–2 yearsbefore leaving is when TAP starts: one year before separation, or two years before retiring (VA).
3 callsVA Solid Start tries to reach newly separated veterans three times in the first year: around 90, 180 and 365 days (VA).
365 daysafter leaving, retired and honorably discharged members and their families can still use Military OneSource (DoD).
10 yearsof enhanced VA health care eligibility for combat veterans discharged on or after September 11, 2001. Apply right away (VA).

Signs of progress

Lowest since 2016The suicide rate in the first 12 months after leaving service was the lowest since 2016 for veterans who separated in 2023 (VA, 2026).
Lower when reachedIn 2024, the suicide rate was lower for veterans Solid Start successfully reached than for those it tried but couldn’t reach (VA, 2026).
1.3 million+calls, chats and texts were answered by the Veterans Crisis Line in fiscal year 2026 (VA, 2026).
Pick up the call. Answering Solid Start, keeping your contact details current and staying connected are simple steps that line up support.

Why the first years matter

A time of big change, and a time when support makes a difference.

Leaving the military changes your job, routine, health care, home and team, often all at once. Most veterans make this move and build good lives. But stress can pile up, and that’s when a safety net matters most.

📈 A higher-risk windowThe first year deserves extra care.
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In a study of nearly 1.9 million service members who left from 2010 to 2017, suicide risk was highest in the first year after leaving, generally peaking 6 to 12 months out. Risk stayed higher for several years after that.

This doesn’t mean something will go wrong. It means it’s worth planning for this time the way you’d plan any mission.

🌱 Who may need more supportYounger veterans and shorter service.
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Risk was highest for the youngest people leaving, and for those with less than two years of service. The researchers suggested prevention may be especially helpful for these groups.

If that’s you, or someone you love, it’s even more important to line up support early.

🌤️ Things are getting betterSupport during transition is growing.
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For veterans who left service in 2023, the suicide rate in the first year after leaving was the lowest since 2016. VA now reaches out to newly separated veterans through Solid Start.

If you’re struggling right now, you don’t have to wait for a plan. Dial 988 then press 1, text 838255, or chat at VeteransCrisisLine.net. If you are in immediate danger, call 911.

What changes all at once

Structure, team, health care, money and home. Tap any card.

VA notes that leaving service can create stress that shows up in different ways. Seeing the changes clearly makes them easier to plan for.

⏱️ StructureNo formation, no schedule set for you.
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Without a set routine, days can blur together. Sleep, meals and exercise can slip, and that can affect your mood.

Who am I without the uniform? helps you build your own daily battle rhythm.
🪖 Your unitThe people who had your back may be far away.
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Feeling connected to other people protects against suicide. After service, your closest friends may be scattered across the country.

Staying in touch with even one or two people you served with can make a real difference.

🩺 Health careMilitary care ends; VA or other care begins.
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VA advises applying for VA health care when you receive your separation or retirement orders, so there’s less of a gap.

Veterans: getting care & support walks through enrolling, step by step.
💵 Money & workA paycheck gap or a new job to find.
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Financial loss was one of the common risk factors in VA reviews of recent patients who died by suicide. Planning a money cushion and a job search early can ease pressure.

Veterans: purpose & work after service covers translating your skills and job searching.
🏡 Home & familyA move, and new roles at home.
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Many families move after service. Partners and kids adjust too, and relationship strain is common during big changes.

Veterans: family & partners and Military spouses & partners have more on families in transition.

Before you leave: setting up your safety net

Programs to use while you’re still in, and right after.

The best time to line up support is before you need it. These programs are built for the transition. Tap each one.

🎓 Transition Assistance Program (TAP)Starts a year before separation, or two before retiring.
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TAP gives service members and their families information and tools for leaving the military. The VA Benefits and Services course covers health care, disability compensation, education, housing and community connection.

An online version is open to veterans, family members and caregivers too.

🏥 Apply for VA health care earlyWhen your orders come through.
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VA recommends applying when you receive your separation or retirement orders. Combat veterans discharged on or after September 11, 2001, get 10 years of enhanced eligibility, so apply right away.

📲 VA Solid StartThree check-in calls in your first year.
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Solid Start tries to reach newly separated veterans during days 0–90, 91–180 and 181–365. Calls cover health care, mental health resources, education, housing and more. You can also schedule a call.

The Solid Start line is 1-800-827-0611, weekdays 8 a.m. to 9 p.m. ET. Keep your contact details up to date on VA.gov so they can reach you.

Solid Start representatives will not ask for financial information. If a caller does, hang up and call VA yourself.
🧷 Military OneSourceStill yours for 365 days after you leave.
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Retired and honorably discharged members and their immediate families can use Military OneSource until 365 days after leaving. It offers free, confidential non-medical counseling, up to 12 sessions per issue, plus financial counseling.

Call 800-342-9647, 24/7.

🧑‍💼 A case manager (post-9/11)Someone to help you navigate VA.
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Each VA medical center has a Post-9/11 Military2VA (M2VA) case management team. They help transitioning service members, veterans, families and caregivers navigate VA health care and reach their goals.

The first 90 days: landing safely

Simple steps that steady you in the first months.

A landing checklist

  1. Set a daily routine: a wake-up time, movement, meals and a bedtime.
  2. Pick two or three people you’ll check in with every week, including at least one veteran.
  3. Answer the Solid Start call, or schedule one yourself.
  4. Book a first health care appointment, and mention sleep, pain, mood or drinking.
  5. Save the Veterans Crisis Line in your phone: dial 988 then press 1, or text 838255.
  6. Make your home safer during stressful times, with time and distance from anything that could cause harm.
😴 Protect your sleepSleep problems are worth taking seriously.
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Sleep problems were one of the most common risk factors in VA reviews. VA offers free sleep help, including the online Path to Better Sleep program and the CBT-i Coach app.

Sleep, pain & your body after service has more.
🎯 Give each week a missionSmall goals beat empty days.
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A job application, a class, a workout plan or a project at home can give days shape. Purpose doesn’t have to be big to help.

Veterans: purpose & work after service and Going back to school after service have ideas.
🗓️ Mark the hard datesAnniversaries can hit harder in a new life.
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The National Center for PTSD suggests planning ahead for anniversaries, such as Memorial Day or the date you lost a friend. Spend the day with people, do something meaningful, and tell someone what you need.

Getting mental health care during transition

You may be able to get help sooner than you think.

You don’t have to wait until you’re in crisis, or until all your paperwork is done. VA says you don’t need to be enrolled in VA health care to get free VA mental health services.

🚶 Walk in or callAny VA medical center or Vet Center.
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You can walk into or call any VA medical center, day or night, or any Vet Center during clinic hours. All VA health care facilities provide same-day emergency mental health care.

📄 Any discharge statusHelp is still available.
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VA says its mental health care is available no matter your discharge status, and it can help with sleep problems, anger and readjusting to civilian life.

Veterans: getting care & support explains care with an other-than-honorable discharge.
🛋️ Vet CentersFree, confidential, non-medical settings.
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Vet Centers offer free, confidential counseling to eligible veterans, service members and families, including help with the move from military to civilian life. The Vet Center Call Center is 1-877-927-8387, 24/7, staffed by combat veterans and family members.

🚑 Emergency careFree crisis care at any emergency department.
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Under the COMPACT Act, eligible veterans can get emergency suicide-prevention care at any emergency department at no cost.

Talk with your VA provider about transition challenges like anxiety, trouble sleeping or trouble concentrating. These are common and treatable.

Your warning lights

Early signs that transition stress is building, and when to act.

Think of these like warning lights on a dashboard. One light doesn’t mean disaster, but it’s a signal to slow down and get support.

Early signs of transition stress (VA)

  • Avoiding people
  • Constant distraction, like hours of games or scrolling
  • Feeling overwhelmed
  • Getting angry easily

Signs to reach out now

  • Drinking or using drugs more
  • Feeling excessive guilt, shame or a sense of failure
  • Feeling there is no reason to live, or no way out
  • Taking risks without thinking
  • Withdrawing from family and friends
If you’re thinking about suicide, or about hurting yourself, reach out now: dial 988 then press 1, text 838255, or chat at VeteransCrisisLine.net. Calling for help is a strong move, not a weak one.
Veterans: everyday coping walks through making your own safety plan for the hardest moments.

Everyday safety habits for the transition

Small habits that lower risk while life is changing.

🔒 Time & distance at homeA routine safety step, like clearing a weapon.
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VA says putting time and space between a crisis and action gives crucial moments to get through. Many veterans choose safer storage during stressful times, and VA offers free cable gun locks.

Safe storage & time-and-distance: protecting a veteran in crisis explains the options with respect for gun ownership.
🍺 Keep an eye on drinkingRelief that can turn into more risk.
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Increasing alcohol or drug use is a warning sign the Veterans Crisis Line asks people to take seriously.

Alcohol & substance use after service has a check-in and a cut-back plan.
🤝 Don’t go it aloneBuddy checks work both ways.
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VA encourages veterans to connect with peers and do buddy checks on each other. Checking on a buddy can help you as much as them.

🏠 Watch for housing troubleGet help early if your housing is at risk.
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Losing a home is a heavy stress. Housing & homelessness help for veterans explains how to get help before it becomes a crisis.

For families: helping someone land

How partners, parents and friends can help through the transition.

Families go through the transition too. You may notice changes before the veteran does. Your steady presence is one of the best protections they have.

🧳 Learn alongside themTAP and Military OneSource include families.
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The online TAP VA Benefits and Services course is open to family members and caregivers. Immediate family can also use Military OneSource until 365 days after the service member leaves.

👀 Notice and check inEspecially in the first year.
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Keep an eye out for the warning lights above, and check in directly if you’re worried.

When you’re worried about a veteran: warning signs & what to say has words to use, including how to ask about suicide.
⚖️ Look after yourself tooYou’re changing as well.
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Spouses may lose a community or restart a career. The Veterans Crisis Line supports family and friends, and Vet Centers offer family counseling.

Military spouses & partners has a section on spouses in transition.

How community helps

A new unit, a new mission and people who get it.

Feeling connected to others and to community protects against suicide. After service, building a new circle is one of the most protective things you can do.

🎖️ Veteran groups & peersPeople who understand without explaining.
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Veteran service organizations, sports and outdoor groups, and volunteer teams can offer the camaraderie many miss. Vet Centers also run group counseling.

Who am I without the uniform? has ideas for finding a new unit.
🤲 Community suicide prevention groupsHelp outside VA, too.
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Through VA’s Fox suicide prevention grants, about 17,000 veterans, service members and family members got services from community groups in 2025.

💼 Employers, schools & faith groupsEveryone can make the landing softer.
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  • Employers: share the Veterans Crisis Line and support time off for care
  • Faith groups: welcome new veterans and know where to point people for help
  • Schools: connect student veterans with campus veteran services
  • Everyone: learn the free S.A.V.E. suicide prevention training from VA and PsychArmor

When and where to get help

Crisis lines, transition help and support outside the U.S.

🇺🇸 Crisis & peer supportFree, confidential and 24/7.
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  • Emergency: 911
  • Vet Center Call Center: 1-877-927-8387, 24/7
  • Veterans Crisis Line: dial 988 then press 1, text 838255, or chat at VeteransCrisisLine.net

Veterans Crisis Line TTY: 1-800-799-4889. You don’t have to be enrolled in VA benefits or health care to connect.

🧭 Transition helpFor practical questions.
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  • Military OneSource: 800-342-9647, 24/7, up to 365 days after leaving
  • VA Solid Start: 1-800-827-0611, weekdays 8 a.m. to 9 p.m. ET
🌐 OverseasU.S. veterans and service members abroad.
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The Veterans Crisis Line website lists numbers for each overseas region, and its online chat works from anywhere.

🌍 Outside the U.S.Help in your country.
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findahelpline.com lists free, confidential helplines by country. Veteran suicide prevention lists veterans’ lines in Australia, Canada and the UK. In an emergency, call your local emergency number.

You served. You’ve earned support. If things feel too heavy at any point in the transition, dial 988 then press 1, text 838255, or chat at VeteransCrisisLine.net. If a life is in danger, call 911.

📝 Worksheets for this guide

Fill these in privately in the app. Your answers stay on your phone.

My transition safety net checklistTrack the support you’ve set up, and what’s still to do.
My first 90 days planPlan your routine, your people and your goals for the first three months.
My transition warning lightsKnow your own signs that stress is building, and what you’ll do.
My people after serviceMap the people and groups who can be your new unit.
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Sources

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  3. U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs, DiscoverVA. Transition Assistance Program (TAP)
  4. U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs, DiscoverVA. VA Transition Programs
  5. U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. VA Solid Start (VASS)
  6. U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs, VA Mental Health. Veterans Transitioning From Service
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This guide is for education and self-care. It is not a diagnosis or a substitute for professional care. Please talk to a counselor or clinical provider about your health. Reviewed October 2026.

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