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Discrimination at school or work: what you can do

You have the right to be treated fairly. Knowing the steps, and the deadlines, can help you feel less powerless.

⏱ 3 min read📑 11 sections📚 25 sources✅ Reviewed October 2026

By the numbers

Key numbers and deadlines to know (U.S.).

At work

88,201charges of job discrimination were filed with the EEOC in fiscal year 2025.
180 daysis the usual time limit to file an EEOC charge, extended to 300 days in places with their own similar law and agency.
15+employees: most federal job discrimination laws cover employers this size (20+ for age discrimination). State or local laws may cover smaller employers.
< 3 monthsis how long EEOC mediation usually takes to resolve a charge, on average. It is free. Investigations can take 10 months or more.

At school

180 daysis the general time limit to file a complaint with the U.S. Department of Education’s Office for Civil Rights.
60 daysafter a school’s own complaint process ends, you can still file with OCR if you used that process first.

What counts as discrimination at work

The basics of U.S. federal law. Tap any card.

This is general information, not legal advice. Laws and how agencies apply them can change, and states can add protections. Check eeoc.gov, your state agency or a legal aid office for your own situation.

Federal law protects job applicants and employees from discrimination based on race, color, religion, sex (including pregnancy, transgender status and sexual orientation, as the EEOC lists it), national origin, age (40 or older), disability and genetic information.

🚪 Unfair decisionsHiring, pay, promotion, firing and more.
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Discrimination can happen in any part of a job, from the interview to the last day. Being passed over, paid less, given worse shifts or let go because of a protected trait can all count.

🗯️ HarassmentUnwelcome conduct based on who you are.
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Harassment is unwelcome conduct based on a protected trait. It becomes illegal when putting up with it is a condition of keeping your job, or when it is severe or frequent enough to create a hostile work environment. Offensive jokes, slurs, name-calling, threats and ridicule can all be part of it.

Small slights or one-off comments usually don’t meet the legal bar on their own unless they are very serious. They can still hurt, and they can still be reported to your employer.

♿ AccommodationsChanges for disability, pregnancy or religion.
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Asking for a disability or religious accommodation is protected activity. The Job Accommodation Network (askjan.org) offers free, confidential advice on workplace accommodations.

🔁 Punished for speaking upRetaliation is illegal too.
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Employers may not punish you for complaining about discrimination, taking part in an investigation or asking for an accommodation. See the section “Protection from retaliation.”

Racism at work & code-switching, Women at work: bias, ambition & burnout and Your rights at work go deeper on specific situations.

What counts as discrimination at school or college

For students, and for parents and caregivers.

Federal civil rights laws protect students at schools and colleges that receive federal money. The U.S. Department of Education’s Office for Civil Rights (OCR) handles complaints about race, color, national origin, sex, disability and age.

The U.S. Department of Justice Civil Rights Division also works on discrimination in education, including religion, and failing to support students who are learning English.

🗯️ Harassment by students or staffWhen bullying is about who you are.
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Name-calling, threats or exclusion because of race, religion, disability, sex or national origin can be discriminatory harassment, and it can be reported.

📚 Unequal accessBeing shut out of classes, programs or support.
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Being kept out of advanced classes, activities or language services, or not getting the disability services a student is entitled to, can be discrimination.

🎓 College studentsAdults have rights on campus too.
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Colleges and universities that receive federal money are covered. Your student services or disability services office can tell you how to report on campus.

👨‍👩‍👧 For parents and caregiversYou can file on your child’s behalf.
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Anyone can file an OCR complaint, including a parent or someone acting for the student. Start by writing down what your child tells you, in their words, with dates.

Ways to support your child

  • Believe them and thank them for telling you
  • Ask what would help them feel safe at school
  • Keep them in the loop about steps you take
  • Watch for changes in sleep, mood or not wanting to go to school

First steps: steady yourself, then write it down

Good notes protect your options, whatever you decide.

After something unfair happens, you might feel shocked, angry or scared. It’s okay to take a breath before deciding anything. Writing things down soon after, while details are fresh, keeps every option open.

What to record

  1. The date, time and place.
  2. What was said or done, in as close to the exact words as you can remember.
  3. Who was involved, and who saw or heard it.
  4. How it affected you, your work or your studies.
  5. Any emails, messages, schedules, grades or reviews linked to it (save copies somewhere personal).
  6. Who you told about it, and when.
Use the “Incident log” worksheet below. Keep copies off work or school devices, in a place only you can reach.
Deadlines matter. EEOC charges are usually due within 180 or 300 days, and OCR complaints within 180 days. Writing things down early helps you stay within them.

Speaking up inside: HR, managers and school staff

Often the first step, though not the only one.

The EEOC suggests telling the person that the behaviour is unwelcome and must stop, if you feel safe to, and reporting harassment to management early, before it gets worse. Many employers have a complaint process.

🏢 At workA manager you trust, HR or a complaint line.
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Check your employee handbook for how to report. Putting your complaint in writing, by email, gives you a record of when you reported.

Using your employer’s process or a union grievance generally does not pause the EEOC deadline. You can do both at the same time.
🍎 At schoolTeacher, counselor, principal or campus office.
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Schools often have a staff member who handles discrimination complaints. You don’t have to use the school’s process before going to OCR. If you do, you can still file with OCR within 60 days after it ends.

✉️ What to sayShort, factual and calm.
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You might write

  • “I’m reporting an incident on [date] when [what happened]. I believe it was because of my [trait].”
  • “I’d like this investigated and for it to stop.”
  • “Please confirm you’ve received this.”
Workplace bullying & harassment has a worksheet for planning to speak up.

Filing with the EEOC: what to expect

How to start, and the free options along the way.

The U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC) enforces federal job discrimination laws. In most cases you must file a charge with the EEOC before you can sue an employer for job discrimination.

Ways to start

  • By phone: 1-800-669-4000 (to talk through your situation; charges aren’t taken over the phone)
  • Deaf or hard of hearing: TTY 1-800-669-6820 or ASL video phone 1-844-234-5122
  • In person at an EEOC office
  • Online through the EEOC Public Portal (publicportal.eeoc.gov)
  • Through your state or local fair employment agency, which can file with the EEOC for you
⏳ Time limitsUsually 180 or 300 days.
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You generally have 180 calendar days from the event, or 300 days if a state or local agency enforces a similar law. For ongoing harassment, the clock runs from the last incident. Weekends and holidays count.

Federal employees have a different process and generally must contact their agency’s EEO counselor within 45 days.

🤝 MediationFree, voluntary and confidential.
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The EEOC offers mediation at no cost to either side. Both sides must agree. A session usually lasts 3 to 4 hours, and mediated charges are usually resolved in under 3 months on average.

🔎 InvestigationIf mediation isn’t chosen or doesn’t work.
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If either side says no to mediation, the charge goes to an investigator. Investigations can take 10 months or more, so it helps to plan for a long process.

Filing with the Office for Civil Rights

For students at schools and colleges.

Anyone can file a complaint with the U.S. Department of Education’s Office for Civil Rights, including a parent or someone acting on a student’s behalf. Complaints should generally be filed within 180 days of the last incident.

Ways to reach OCR

  • Online complaint form on ed.gov
  • Email: OCR@ed.gov
  • Phone: 1-800-421-3481
  • By mail or fax to the OCR regional office for your state

If you file a complaint for a child under 18, OCR may ask for a consent form signed by a parent or guardian.

You can also report civil rights violations in education, such as religious discrimination, to the U.S. Department of Justice at civilrights.justice.gov.

Protection from retaliation

Speaking up is protected.

It is illegal for an employer to punish you for asserting your right to be free from discrimination. The EEOC says retaliation is the most frequently alleged basis of discrimination in the federal sector.

Protected activities include

  • Answering questions in a workplace investigation
  • Asking coworkers or managers about pay to uncover unfair wages
  • Filing a charge or complaint, or being a witness
  • Reporting discrimination or harassment to a supervisor
  • Requesting a disability or religious accommodation

Retaliation can look like

  • Being moved to a worse position or shift
  • Increased scrutiny or unfair write-ups
  • Lower performance reviews without reason
  • Spreading false rumours
  • Threats or verbal abuse

Schools may not retaliate against anyone who files a complaint or takes part in an OCR investigation either.

Getting legal help and support

Free and low-cost help exists.

You don’t need a lawyer to file with the EEOC or OCR. Still, advice can help you understand your options and deadlines.

🏛️ Legal aidFree civil legal help for people with low incomes.
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The Legal Services Corporation funds legal aid organizations across every state. Its online tool finds the office for your area. USA.gov also lists ways to find free or low-cost legal help.

🗺️ State and local agenciesMany states have their own civil rights agency.
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Filing with a state or local fair employment agency also files your charge with the EEOC. State laws may cover smaller employers or more traits than federal law.

♿ Disability questionsFree accommodation advice.
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The Job Accommodation Network (askjan.org) gives free, confidential guidance on workplace accommodations and disability employment questions.

Looking after yourself through a complaint

A complaint can take months. Your wellbeing matters the whole way.

Going through a complaint can feel like reliving what happened. Waiting for answers, facing the people involved and worrying about the outcome are all stressful. It’s normal to feel tired, angry or anxious along the way.

🤗 Build a support teamFriends, family, a counselor, a union rep.
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Having people to talk to helps people cope with discrimination. Choose one or two people you can update, so you’re not carrying it alone.

📦 Contain itGive the complaint a time and a place.
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Keep all your notes in one folder. Set a time to work on it, then put it away. That stops it from taking over every evening.

🌿 Keep the rest of life goingSleep, movement and things you enjoy.
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Hobbies, prayer, meditation, rest and time with people you love can help you feel steady while the process plays out.

🔚 Whatever the outcomeSpeaking up has value in itself.
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Not every complaint ends the way people hope. Whatever happens, you stood up for yourself. Coping with discrimination: protecting your mental health has more on healing afterwards.

When and where to get help

Signs it’s time to reach out, and where to turn.

If stress from what happened is affecting your sleep, relationships, work or studies, it’s a good time to talk with a mental health professional. Students can often see a school or campus counselor for free.

Reach out if, for two weeks or more, you notice

  • Changes in appetite or weight you didn’t plan
  • Difficulty getting out of bed because of your mood
  • Feeling irritable, frustrated or restless most of the time
  • Losing interest in things you usually enjoy
  • Trouble sleeping or concentrating

Where to start

  • A school, campus or workplace counselor (Employee Assistance Programs are often free)
  • A therapist who understands your background
  • Your primary care or clinical provider, who can help you find mental health care
Outside the U.S.? Free, confidential helplines in many countries are listed at findahelpline.com. Many countries have a national equality or human rights body that takes complaints about work and school.
If you’re in crisis or thinking about suicide, call or text 988 (U.S.), or text HOME to 741741. If a life is in danger, call 911.

📝 Worksheets for this guide

Fill these in privately in the app. Your answers stay on your phone.

Incident logWrite down each incident soon after it happens. Keep this somewhere private.
My complaint plan and deadlinesKeep your options, deadlines and contacts in one place.
Taking care of me through the processA check-in for the weeks and months a complaint can take.
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Sources

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  2. U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC). Filing a Charge of Discrimination
  3. U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC). How to File a Charge of Employment Discrimination
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  5. U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC). Time Limits For Filing A Charge
  6. U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC). Get The Facts Series: Small Business Information
  7. U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC). Harassment
  8. U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC). Retaliation
  9. U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC). Mediation
  10. U.S. Department of Education, Office for Civil Rights (2025). How to File a Discrimination Complaint with OCR
  11. U.S. Department of Education, Office for Civil Rights. Office for Civil Rights: contact information and regional offices
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  13. U.S. Department of Justice, Civil Rights Division. Types of Educational Opportunities Discrimination
  14. U.S. Department of Justice. Hate Crimes: Get Help Now
  15. Job Accommodation Network (JAN), funded by the U.S. Department of Labor, Office of Disability Employment Policy. Job Accommodation Network
  16. Legal Services Corporation (LSC). Get Legal Help
  17. USA.gov. Find free or low-cost legal help
  18. American Psychological Association (APA) (2016). Stress in America: The Impact of Discrimination (Stress in America survey)
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  20. National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH) (2026). Caring for Your Mental Health
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This guide is for education and self-care. It is not a diagnosis or a substitute for professional care. Please talk to a counselor or clinical provider about your health. Reviewed October 2026.

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