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Identity theft

Finding out someone used your name can feel like a break-in to your whole life. It is not your fault, and you can get secure again, one step at a time.

⏱ 4 min read📑 10 sections📚 14 sources✅ Reviewed October 2026

What identity theft is

Someone using your personal or financial information without permission. Tap any card.

Identity theft is when someone uses your personal or financial information without your permission. They might open accounts in your name, steal a tax refund, or use your identity for medical care or a job. Finding out can feel like a break-in to your whole life.

It is very common. In 2024 the Federal Trade Commission received more than 1.1 million identity theft reports, and credit card misuse was the most reported type.

💳 Credit cards, loans & leasesNew cards, loans or leases opened in your name, or charges on your existing cards.
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Thieves can make purchases with your credit cards or get new cards in your name. Credit card misuse topped the FTC’s list in 2024, with 449,032 reports, and loans or leases were also among the most reported types.

A credit freeze stops anyone from opening new credit in your name. It is free to place and free to lift.
🏦 Bank accountsWithdrawals you didn’t make, or new accounts you never opened.
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Bank account misuse is one of the top three types of identity theft reported to the FTC. Withdrawals you didn’t make are one of the warning signs to watch for.

Credit monitoring services do not alert you to bank withdrawals, so it helps to look at your own statements regularly.

🧾 Tax & job identity theftSomeone files a tax return or gets a job using your Social Security number.
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Thieves can use your Social Security number to file a tax return and collect your refund, or to get a job. Credit monitoring will not catch this, which is why the IRS offers extra protection.

See “Tax, medical & child identity theft” below for the IRS Identity Protection PIN.
🩺 Medical identity theftSomeone gets medical care or makes insurance claims with your information.
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Medical identity theft is when someone uses your information to get care, devices or insurance claims. Their health details can get mixed into your records, which can affect your care, your insurance benefits and your credit.

📄 Government documents, benefits & utilitiesBenefits claimed, or phone and utility accounts opened, in your name.
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Thieves can open phone, electricity or gas accounts in your name, or use your identity for government documents or benefits. Some even pretend to be you if they are arrested.

Identity monitoring services usually won’t alert you if someone uses your information for tax, Medicare, Medicaid, Social Security or unemployment benefits.

Being targeted is not a sign that you were careless. Thieves are skilled, and identity theft happens to careful people too.

Warning signs

Strange bills, missing mail, or accounts you don’t know.

Identity theft often shows up quietly, in a bill, a letter or a credit report. Knowing the signs helps you catch it early, when it is easier to fix.

✉️ Money & mail signsMissing bills, strange charges, or withdrawals you didn’t make.
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Watch for

  • Accounts on your credit report that aren’t yours
  • Bank withdrawals you didn’t make
  • Bills that stop arriving (your address may have been changed)
  • Charges or bills you don’t recognize
You can check your credit reports for free. Looking regularly helps you catch problems early.
🏥 Medical signsBills or insurance statements for care you never had.
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Watch for

  • A bill or Explanation of Benefits for care you didn’t get
  • A debt collector calling about medical debt you don’t owe
  • Medical collection notices on your credit report you don’t recognize
  • Your insurer saying you’ve reached a benefit limit
🧒 Signs a child’s identity was usedDebt collectors, IRS letters or denied benefits in a child’s name.
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Watch for

  • A debt collector calling about an account your child never opened
  • An IRS letter about unpaid income taxes for your child
  • Your child being denied government benefits because someone else is using their Social Security number
  • Your child being turned down for a student loan because of bad credit they didn’t create

Children under 18 generally don’t have a credit report, so finding one can be a sign of a problem.

What to do first

Report it, freeze your credit, and follow a recovery plan.

When you discover identity theft, it can feel like everything needs fixing at once. It doesn’t. A few key steps, done in order, stop most of the damage and give you a clear plan.

First steps

  1. Report it at IdentityTheft.gov, the Federal Trade Commission’s free site. It gives you a personal recovery plan, with letters and forms filled in for you
  2. Call the fraud departments of your credit card companies, bank and any other place where an account was misused
  3. Place a free credit freeze with each of the three credit bureaus, so no one can open new credit in your name
  4. Or place a free fraud alert (lasts one year). Contact one bureau, and it must tell the other two
  5. Check your credit reports for accounts you don’t recognize
  6. Change passwords and turn on two-step sign-in
🧭 IdentityTheft.govThe free government site that builds your recovery plan.
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Reporting to the FTC gets you a free, personal recovery plan. The site is IdentityTheft.gov in English and RobodeIdentidad.gov in Spanish.

You can also call the FTC at 1-877-438-4338. For other languages, press 3 to reach an interpreter, available 9am to 5pm Eastern.

🧊 Credit freeze or fraud alert?A freeze locks your credit; an alert asks lenders to check with you.
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While a credit freeze is in place, nobody can open a new credit account in your name. It is free to place and lift, but you need to contact Experian, TransUnion and Equifax separately.

A fraud alert tells businesses to check with you before opening a new account. It is free, lasts one year, and you only need to contact one bureau. You can place one even if you already have a freeze.

🗂️ Keep a recordOne folder for every call, letter and reference number.
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Recovery usually means several calls and letters. Writing down who you spoke to, when, and what they said makes follow-up much easier and less stressful.

Use the “Identity theft recovery log” worksheet to keep it all in one place.

Tax, medical & child identity theft

Extra steps for the kinds that credit monitoring can miss.

Some kinds of identity theft need their own steps, because they don’t show up on a normal credit report. Here is what official agencies recommend.

📮 Tax identity theftForm 14039 and the IRS Identity Protection PIN.
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If you suspect tax-related identity theft but haven’t had an IRS notice, you can file Form 14039, the Identity Theft Affidavit. Filing it invalidates a fraudulent return filed with your information.

An Identity Protection PIN (IP PIN) is a six-digit number that stops anyone else filing a tax return with your Social Security number. Anyone who can verify their identity can get one, and parents can request one for dependents. A new IP PIN is created each year.

The IRS will never ask for your IP PIN. Calls, emails or texts asking for it are scams.
🩺 Medical identity theftGet your records, then correct them in writing.
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What to do

  1. Ask for copies of your records from each doctor, clinic, hospital, pharmacy, lab and insurer involved
  2. Look for visits or services you didn’t receive
  3. Report errors in writing, with a copy of the wrong record, using a trackable method like certified mail
  4. Check your credit reports for medical bills you don’t recognize
  5. Build a recovery plan at IdentityTheft.gov

Your health care provider must respond to your correction request within 30 days, and tell other providers who may have the same error.

🧒 Child identity theftAsk for a manual search, then freeze your child’s credit.
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To check, contact all three credit bureaus and ask for a manual search of your child’s Social Security number. You may need your ID, proof of address, and your child’s birth certificate and Social Security card.

If you find fraud

  • Freeze your child’s credit: a parent can do this for children under 16, and teens aged 16 or 17 can do it themselves
  • Report and close the accounts, and ask for written confirmation your child isn’t responsible
  • Report it at IdentityTheft.gov
A child’s credit freeze stays in place until you ask the bureaus to remove it, so it can protect them for years.

The emotional toll

Worry, anger, shame and poor sleep are common. Tap any card.

Identity theft is not only a money problem. In a 2024 survey by the Identity Theft Resource Center, most victims who contacted the center said they felt worried or anxious (82%) and violated (76%).

😟 Worried and violatedIt can feel like someone broke into your private life.
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Feeling worried, violated and vulnerable were the most common reactions in the survey. Many people describe a sense that their private life is no longer their own.

These feelings are a normal response to a real intrusion. They usually ease as you regain control.
😳 Shame and self-blame“How could I let this happen?” It wasn’t your doing.
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Shame or embarrassment (45%) and guilt that they caused it (39%) were common among victims who contacted the center.

Thieves get information in many ways, including data breaches you had no control over. Blame belongs with the person who stole from you.

🤝 Trouble trustingIt can be hard to trust people, calls and emails afterwards.
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Six in ten victims who contacted the center said they felt they couldn’t trust people. Some also felt isolated or lost interest in hobbies.

Some caution is healthy. The goal is to feel safe enough to keep living your life, not to stay on guard all the time.

🛏️ In your bodyPoor sleep, tension, aches or panic.
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Among victims who contacted the center, 59% reported sleep problems and 67% felt stressed, tense or irritable. Some had panic or anxiety attacks, aches and pains, or changes in eating.

Small steady routines, like regular meals, a short walk and a set bedtime, help the body settle.
💛 When it feels like too muchSome people feel hopeless. Please reach out.
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The Identity Theft Resource Center has found that some victims think about ending their lives. If you feel this way, you are not alone, and help is available right now.

Call or text 988 (U.S.), or text HOME to 741741. If a life is in danger, call 911.
Having some of these reactions doesn’t mean you have a mental health condition. Only a qualified professional can assess what’s going on for you. Please talk to your clinical provider or therapist.

Calming the anxiety

Break it into small steps and give yourself breaks.

Identity theft can leave you checking accounts again and again, or feeling unsafe online. Your mind is trying to protect you, but constant checking can keep worry going.

Taking direct, active steps to cope can give a sense of power back. Quick fixes that numb the pain can make things worse over time.

⏰ Set a checking timeCheck accounts at a set time, not all day.
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Ideas

  • Choose one time a day (or a week) to check accounts
  • Turn on account alerts so you don’t have to keep looking
  • When the urge to check comes, note it and wait for your set time
Use the “My identity theft worry plan” worksheet to set your own checking time.
🪜 One task a daySmall, finished steps calm the sense of chaos.
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Ideas

  • Ask someone you trust to sit with you while you make calls
  • Do one task per day, then stop
  • Keep a single notebook or folder for every call and letter
  • Tick off what you finish, so you can see progress
🌬️ Steady your bodySlow breathing and grounding before hard calls.
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Before a stressful call, breathe in slowly for four counts and out for six, a few times. When worry spirals, name five things you can see to bring yourself back to the present.

Moving your body, even a short walk, can also help release tension.

🗣️ Talk about itSharing it lightens the load.
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Talking with family and friends when you are ready can help. Among victims who contacted the Identity Theft Resource Center, 30% sought emotional support, so many people carry it alone.

Asking for emotional support is as sensible as asking for help with the paperwork.

Protecting yourself going forward

Simple habits that make you a harder target.

No one can make themselves completely safe, but a few habits make it much harder for thieves. They can also bring back a sense of control.

📬 Papers and mailStore, shred and collect promptly.
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Habits that help

  • Keep financial records and Social Security and Medicare cards in a safe place
  • Shred documents before throwing them away, or black out account numbers
  • Take mail out of your mailbox promptly
🔢 Your Social Security numberAsk why it’s needed before you share it.
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Questions to ask

  • Why do you need it?
  • How will you protect it?
  • Can you use a different identifier?
  • Are the last four digits enough?

The IRS, banks and employers won’t call, email or text you to ask for your Social Security number.

🔑 Online accountsStrong passwords and two-step sign-in.
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Habits that help

  • Don’t give personal information to callers, emails or texts you didn’t expect
  • Turn on two-step or multi-factor sign-in
  • Use strong, different passwords for each account

For more on scam calls, fake messages and deepfakes, see the “AI scams, deepfakes & misinformation” guide.

🔍 Monitoring servicesKnow what paid services can and can’t do.
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Credit monitoring alerts you to changes in your credit report but not to bank withdrawals or tax refund fraud. Identity monitoring usually won’t catch benefits fraud.

Identity theft insurance generally doesn’t pay back stolen money. A free credit freeze often does more to prevent new accounts than a paid service.

Helping someone after identity theft

Patience and practical help, especially for older adults.

People often feel embarrassed and overwhelmed after identity theft. Calm, practical help from someone they trust can make the process feel far less lonely.

💬 What to sayLead with kindness, not questions about how it happened.
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Try saying

  • “It’s not your fault.”
  • “This happens to careful people too.”
  • “We can take it one step at a time.”
  • “Would it help if I sat with you while you call?”

Try to avoid

  • “How could you fall for that?”
  • Taking over without asking
  • Telling others without their permission
🧰 Practical helpGo through the steps together.
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Ways to help

  • Help set up strong passwords and two-step sign-in
  • Help them go through IdentityTheft.gov step by step
  • Help them keep a simple record of calls and letters
  • Offer to sit with them on calls
👵 Older relativesEmbarrassment can stop people asking for help.
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Older relatives may feel embarrassed. Remind them scams are designed to fool smart people. The FTC found that people aged 60 and over filed fewer identity theft reports than younger adults, but any age can be targeted.

For protecting an older adult’s money more broadly, see the “Scams & protecting an older adult’s money” guide.

🔋 Care for yourself tooHelping with a long recovery can be tiring.
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Recovery can take weeks of calls and letters. Share the tasks if you can, and make time for your own rest.

By the numbers

How common identity theft is. You are not alone.

United States (FTC, 2024)

1.1 million+identity theft reports were made to the FTC in 2024 (1,135,291).
449,032reports were about credit card misuse, the most reported type in 2024.
14%of identity theft reports in 2024 involved more than one type of identity theft.
Ages 30–39People in their 30s filed the most identity theft reports (291,807) among those who gave their age.

How victims feel (ITRC, 2024)

82%of victims who contacted the Identity Theft Resource Center felt worried or anxious.
76%felt violated.
59%had sleep problems.
45%felt shame or embarrassment.
FTC numbers count reports people chose to file, so the real number of victims is likely higher.

When and where to get help

Free help for the paperwork, and for your wellbeing.

Help with recovery

  • Federal Trade Commission: IdentityTheft.gov (Spanish: RobodeIdentidad.gov), or call 1-877-438-4338 (press 3 for other languages).
  • Identity Theft Resource Center: free, nonprofit victim help at 888-400-5530 or idtheftcenter.org.
  • Legal aid for people with low incomes: find a local office at lsc.gov.
  • Tax identity theft: IRS Form 14039 and an Identity Protection PIN at irs.gov.

Talk with a counselor or your doctor if…

  • Anxiety or checking is taking over your days
  • Sleep, work or relationships are suffering
  • Shame or anger won’t ease after several weeks
  • You feel hopeless or think about harming yourself
If you’re in crisis, call or text 988 (U.S.), or text HOME to 741741. If a life is in danger, call 911.
Outside the U.S.? Your national police or consumer protection agency can help with reports, and findahelpline.com lists free emotional support lines in many countries.

For scams, crimes and online harassment more broadly, see the “After a crime, scam or harassment” guide. For money worries that follow, see “Debt & financial hardship”.

📝 Worksheets for this guide

Fill these in privately in the app. Your answers stay on your phone.

Identity theft recovery logOne place for every step. Fill it in as you go, so you never have to remember it all.
My identity theft worry planA plan for the anxious moments, so worry doesn’t run your day.
My protection checklistSmall habits that make you a harder target. Note what you’ve done and what’s next.
🔒 Fill in privately in the Mentally United Wellness App. Free, no ads, no accounts.

Sources

  1. Federal Trade Commission (FTC), Consumer Advice. What To Know About Identity Theft
  2. Federal Trade Commission (FTC), Consumer Advice. How To Protect Your Child From Identity Theft
  3. Federal Trade Commission (FTC), Consumer Advice. What To Know About Medical Identity Theft
  4. Federal Trade Commission (FTC) (2025). Consumer Sentinel Network Data Book 2024
  5. USAGov. Identity theft
  6. Internal Revenue Service (IRS). Get an identity protection PIN
  7. Identity Theft Resource Center (ITRC) (2024). 2024 Consumer and Business Impact Report
  8. National Crime Victim Law Institute (NCVLI). Identity Theft Resource Center (resource listing)
  9. Legal Services Corporation (LSC). Get Legal Help
  10. USAGov. Find free legal help
  11. U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs, National Center for PTSD. Self-Help and Coping
  12. U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs, National Center for PTSD. Common Reactions After Trauma
  13. 988 Lifeline. 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
  14. Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA). Crisis Text Line

This guide is for education and self-care. It is not a diagnosis or a substitute for professional care. Please talk to a counselor or clinical provider about your health. Reviewed October 2026.

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