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Being prepared: emotional & practical readiness

A little planning now can calm your mind later. Start small, and you’re already more ready than yesterday.

⏱ 5 min read📑 11 sections📚 32 sources✅ Reviewed October 2026

By the numbers

Key numbers for getting ready.

Getting ready

50%of U.S. adults in FEMA’s 2023 household survey had put together or updated disaster supplies in the past year
39%had made a disaster plan in the past year
1 gallonof water per person per day for your emergency kit

Safety

6 inchesof moving water can knock you down; 1 foot can sweep away a car
100 ftabove sea level, or 1 mile inland, is the goal in a tsunami
20 ftKeep generators and fuel at least this far from windows, doors and attached garages

Power & warnings

4 hrsA closed refrigerator keeps food cold for about this long in an outage
48 hrsA full, closed freezer holds its temperature for about this long
48 / 36 hrsA hurricane watch comes about 48 hours, and a warning about 36 hours, before tropical-storm-force winds

Start here

Why getting ready is good for your mind, not just your safety.

You can’t stop a storm, a quake or a fire. But you can decide now what you’ll do, what you’ll grab, and how your family will find each other. That knowledge helps your body act instead of freeze.

Many people mean to prepare and never quite start. In FEMA’s 2023 household survey, about half of adults had put together or updated supplies in the past year, and fewer than 4 in 10 had made a plan.

Other guides that can help

  • If a disaster has already happened: the After a disaster: what to do guide
  • Worry about climate change and fire or storm seasons: the Climate anxiety & eco-grief guide
  • Feelings and reactions after natural disasters: the Natural & climate disasters guide
Feeling distressed about a disaster, past or coming? Call or text the Disaster Distress Helpline at 1-800-985-5990, free and open 24/7. If a life is in danger, call 911.

Preparing is a way of coping

A plan won’t stop a disaster, but it can calm your mind and help your family cope.

Ready.gov puts it simply: when people feel prepared, they cope better, and so do children. SAMHSA also names preparation as one of the ways to cope with disasters.

Experts on disaster recovery highlight five things that help people recover: a sense of safety, calm, a sense that you and your community can act, connection, and hope. Preparing builds the “we can act” part before you need it.

Four calm steps to get ready

  1. Learn the risks where you live: floods, quakes, fires, storms or volcanoes
  2. Sign up for local emergency alerts on every phone in your home
  3. Make a family plan: shelter, evacuation route, meeting places and an out-of-town contact
  4. Pack a grab-and-go bag, and practise the plan together
🧩 When preparing makes you anxiousDo it in small pieces, then put it away.
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For some people, thinking about disasters stirs up fear. That’s understandable. The goal is a plan you can trust, not constant alertness.

Ideas that help

  • Add one item a week to your kit, not everything at once
  • Do it with a friend, or with music on
  • Set a time limit, like 20 minutes
  • When you’re done, put the plan away and live your life
🔁 Practise makes calmDrills teach your body what to do.
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Ready.gov encourages practising your plan together. When you’ve walked the evacuation route or done an earthquake drill, your body already knows the steps in a real emergency.

Simple drills

  • Do a Drop, Cover, and Hold On drill
  • Practise sending your short family check-in text
  • Time how long it takes to grab your bag and get to the car
  • Walk or drive your evacuation route once a year
Try the “My disaster readiness & calm plan” worksheet.

Alerts, watches and warnings

Know what each alert means, and have a calm first step ready.

The National Weather Service uses two key words. A watch means dangerous conditions are possible. A warning means they are expected, so your preparations should be finished.

📲 Wireless Emergency AlertsFree alerts that arrive on your phone like a text.
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Wireless Emergency Alerts are short messages that officials send to phones in a local area. They are free, need no sign-up, and aren’t slowed by busy networks. They come with a special sound and vibration.

Many towns and counties also have their own alert sign-ups. Ask your local emergency management office.

📻 NOAA Weather RadioRound-the-clock warnings, even when power and phones are down.
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NOAA Weather Radio broadcasts warnings, watches and forecasts 24/7 from your nearest National Weather Service office. It also carries other emergency alerts.

📱 The FEMA appWeather alerts for up to five places you care about.
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The FEMA app gives real-time National Weather Service alerts for up to five locations, so you can follow a parent’s or child’s town too. It can also help you find shelters.

When an alert comes: a calm first minute

  1. Pause and take three slow breaths, longer out than in
  2. Read the alert twice: is it a watch or a warning?
  3. Open your plan and do the first step on it
  4. Send your family check-in text
  5. Follow instructions from local officials
Try the “When a warning comes: my first steps” worksheet.

Know what to do: disaster by disaster

Key safety steps from Ready.gov for ten kinds of emergency. Tap any card.

Knowing exactly what to do helps your body act instead of freeze. These are the key steps from Ready.gov, the U.S. government’s preparedness site. Always follow instructions from local officials.

🏚️ EarthquakesDrop, Cover, and Hold On. Don’t run outside.
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During the shaking

  1. Drop to your hands and knees
  2. Cover your head and neck with one arm; crawl under a sturdy table, or next to an interior wall away from windows
  3. Hold on until the shaking stops

Good to know

  • Afterwards: expect aftershocks, and leave damaged buildings
  • If trapped: text, or bang on a pipe or wall, or use a whistle instead of shouting
  • In a car: pull over, stop and set the parking brake
  • In bed: turn face down and cover your head and neck with a pillow
  • Indoors: stay inside, and avoid doorways
  • Using a wheelchair or walker: lock your wheels, get as low as you safely can, protect your head and neck
Aftershocks can keep your body on alert for weeks. That jumpiness is normal. Slow breathing and grounding can help between shakes.
🌊 TsunamisIf you feel a strong quake near the coast, go to high ground. Don’t wait for a warning.
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Natural warning signs

  • A loud roar from the ocean
  • A strong or long earthquake in a tsunami area
  • The sea suddenly rising, or draining away to show the sea floor

What to do

  • Once shaking stops, move to high ground as far inland as you can
  • Aim for at least 100 feet above sea level, or at least one mile inland
  • Follow evacuation route signs, often a wave with an arrow
  • Stay away from floodwater, downed power lines and damaged buildings afterwards
🌀 Hurricanes and cyclonesKnow your evacuation zone, and leave when officials tell you to.
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Before

  • Clear drains and gutters, and secure outdoor furniture
  • Know your evacuation zone and practise your route, with pets
  • Sign up for alerts, and keep phones charged with backup power
  • Stock supplies for days or weeks

During and after

  • If ordered to evacuate, leave immediately
  • For high winds, shelter in a storm shelter or interior room
  • If flooding traps you, go to the highest level, but not into a closed attic
  • Text or use social media rather than calling, as phone lines may be down
  • Photograph damage for insurance
💧 FloodsTurn Around, Don’t Drown. Six inches of moving water can knock you down.
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Just six inches of moving water can knock you down, and one foot can sweep away a vehicle. Never walk, swim or drive through floodwater.

What to do

  • Move to higher ground or a higher floor, or evacuate if told to
  • Stay off bridges over fast-moving water
  • If your car is in fast water and water rises inside, climb onto the roof
  • Go home only when authorities say it’s safe
  • Stay away from wet electrical equipment, and never run a generator indoors
🔥 WildfiresLeave right away when told. Protect your lungs from smoke.
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What to do

  • Evacuate immediately when local officials tell you to
  • Keep an N95 mask in your go bag for smoke
  • If smoky but not evacuating, stay indoors in a room you can seal, with a portable air cleaner if you have one
  • Afterwards, wait for the all-clear, and avoid hot ash, embers and charred trees
The smell of smoke can bring fear back long after a fire. The Climate anxiety & eco-grief guide covers fire season worries.
🌋 Volcanic eruptionsEvacuate early, and protect yourself from ash.
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What to do

  • Follow evacuation orders, and leave early
  • Avoid areas downwind of the volcano and river valleys downstream
  • Limit time outside; wear a well-fitting N95 mask if you must go out
  • If sheltering, close windows and doors and cover vents
  • Avoid driving in heavy ash, which can stall engines
  • Don’t climb on your roof to clear ash without guidance, and keep children out of cleanup
🌪️ TornadoesGo to the lowest, most interior room, away from windows. Cover your head.
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Where to shelter

  • Best: a safe room or storm shelter built to official standards
  • Next best: a small interior room with no windows, or a basement, on the lowest level of a sturdy building
  • Stay away from windows, doors and outside walls
  • Cover your head and neck with your arms, and put blankets or furniture around you
  • If you can’t stay home safely, go to a public shelter

If you’re in a car

  • There is no fully safe option, only less dangerous ones
  • If debris reaches you, park out of traffic, stay buckled, and keep your head below the windows and covered
  • Don’t shelter under bridges
🥵 Extreme heatStay cool, drink fluids, and check on others.
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What to do

  • Check on older adults, children and neighbours
  • Don’t rely on a fan as your main way to cool down
  • Drink fluids regularly
  • Never leave people or pets in a closed car on a warm day
  • Use a cooling centre if your home has no air conditioning
  • Wear light, loose clothing and stay in the shade

Heat stroke is an emergency. Signs include a very high body temperature, red, hot, dry skin, a fast strong pulse, and dizziness or confusion. Call 911, move the person somewhere cool and cool them with wet cloths.

❄️ Winter storms and extreme coldShelter early, stay off the roads, and keep warm safely.
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What to do

  • Under a winter storm warning, find shelter right away
  • Avoid overexertion when shovelling snow
  • Dress in layers and limit time outdoors
  • If trapped in your car, stay inside it
  • Never heat your home with a gas stove or oven

Watch for frostbite (numb, white or greyish skin) and hypothermia (shivering, confusion, slurred speech, drowsiness). A body temperature below 95°F is an emergency. Get warm, and warm the chest, neck, head and groin first.

🔦 Power outagesKeep the fridge closed, and generators outside.
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Before

  • Have a flashlight for each person
  • Install carbon monoxide detectors with battery backup on every level of your home
  • Keep coolers and a thermometer ready for food
  • Make a plan for power-dependent medical devices with your care team

During

  • Keep fridge and freezer doors closed
  • Never use a gas stove or oven to heat your home
  • Unplug appliances to protect them from surges
  • Use a generator only outdoors, at least 20 feet from windows, doors and garages

Your grab-and-go bag

The basics, the documents, and the comforts that matter.

Ready.gov recommends a basic kit with at least several days of supplies. Pack what you can. Even half a kit is better than none.

Basics

  • Dust mask, moist towelettes, garbage bags
  • First aid kit and a whistle
  • Flashlight, extra batteries, and a battery or hand-crank radio
  • Local maps
  • Non-perishable food for several days, and a manual can opener
  • Phone chargers and a backup battery
  • Water: 1 gallon per person per day, for several days

Don’t forget

  • A warm blanket and sturdy shoes for each person
  • Baby supplies, and pet food and water
  • Books, games and a comfort item for children
  • Cash in small bills, as cards and ATMs may not work
  • Copies of IDs, insurance, birth certificates and key records, stored safely or in the cloud
  • Glasses, contact lens supplies, and anything you need for your health (ask your care team how to keep a backup supply)
Add one small thing that calms you: a photo, a favourite snack, earplugs, a prayer card or a playlist downloaded on your phone.
Try the “My grab-and-go checklist” worksheet.

Finding each other: a reunification plan

If disaster strikes during school or work, everyone needs to know how to reconnect.

Disasters don’t wait until everyone is home. A simple plan helps scattered family members find each other, and can ease panic in the moment.

What to plan

  • A meeting place near home, like a neighbour’s house or a big tree
  • A meeting place out of town, like a relative’s home, if you can’t get back
  • A paper copy of key phone numbers, in case phones die
  • An out-of-town contact: someone outside your area everyone checks in with
  • Your children’s school or childcare emergency plans

Text is best. A text message may get through when a phone call won’t, because it needs much less network capacity. Keep messages short, like “I’m OK. At library.”

Think about every person’s needs: ages, disabilities and equipment, health needs, languages, faith or cultural needs, pets and service animals. Then practise the plan together.

Try the “Our family reunification plan” worksheet.

Money and documents: financial readiness

Papers, cash and insurance that make recovery much easier.

After a disaster, people often need to prove who they are, what they own and what they’re insured for, sometimes with nothing but the clothes they’re wearing. A little preparation now saves a lot of stress later.

📄 Key documentsCopy them now, and store them in more than one place.
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What to gather

  • Contacts: banks, insurance agents, health professionals, your place of worship
  • Financial and legal: housing payment records, insurance policies, income and tax statements
  • Household ID: photo IDs, birth certificates, Social Security cards, military records, pet ID tags
  • Health: insurance cards, immunization records and care team contacts

Store copies in a safe deposit box, on an external drive or in the cloud. Ready.gov also points to the free Emergency Financial First Aid Kit from FEMA and Operation HOPE to help you organise it all.

💵 Cash and savingsATMs and cards may not work after a disaster.
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Keep a small amount of cash at home in a safe place, mostly in small bills. If you can, start an emergency savings account, even with a few dollars at a time.

If you get federal benefits, switching to direct deposit or an electronic payment card means a disruption in mail service won’t stop your income.

☂️ Insurance check-upKnow what you’re covered for before you need it.
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Ready.gov suggests having property (homeowners or renters), health and life insurance if you can, and checking your policies against the hazards where you live.

Homeowners insurance usually doesn’t cover flooding. You may need separate flood insurance through the National Flood Insurance Program.

Easy wins

  • Keep your policy numbers and insurer’s phone number in your go bag
  • Walk through your home filming your belongings, and save the video in the cloud
If money is already tight, the Debt & financial hardship guide has help with basics, bills and talking to lenders.

A plan that includes everyone

Kids, older adults, people with disabilities, and pets.

A good plan fits the real people in your home. Ready.gov suggests thinking about each person’s age, health, mobility, language and equipment, and any pets or service animals.

🦽 People with disabilitiesBuild a support network and plan for equipment.
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Ready.gov suggests

  • Ask your care team how to keep medical equipment running in an outage
  • Ask your power company about a priority power restoration list
  • Create a support network of people who can help, and tell them where your supplies are
  • Know more than one facility if you rely on regular treatments like dialysis
  • Plan accessible transportation for evacuation
  • Ask your local emergency management office about voluntary registries

Some shelters only allow service or support animals, so plan food, water and supplies for them, and check shelter rules ahead of time.

👵 Older adultsDecide ahead of time: stay or go, and who will help.
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Ready.gov suggests

  • Build a support network, and give at least one person a spare key
  • Decide in advance whether you would evacuate or shelter in place
  • Keep copies of Medicare, Medicaid and other insurance cards
  • Learn your healthcare providers’ emergency plans
  • Plan how to keep assistive devices with you
  • Plan transportation if you’ll need help leaving
If you care for an older parent, sit down together and fill in a plan. It can be a gentle way to talk about safety.
🧒 Children and teensGive kids a job. It turns fear into confidence.
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Ready.gov says everyone in the family can help prepare, and invites teens to be leaders in their family’s preparedness. Games and simple lessons help younger children learn without fear.

Ideas by age

  • Little ones: pick a comfort item and a snack for the bag
  • School-age: learn the out-of-town contact’s number and the meeting place
  • Teens: set up alerts on family phones, or lead a drill

Ask about your children’s school or childcare emergency plans, and who is allowed to pick them up.

🐾 Pets and animalsNever leave pets behind. Plan where they can go.
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Many public shelters and hotels don’t accept animals, so find a pet-friendly place ahead of time, keep your pet’s ID tag and microchip details current, and ask a neighbour or friend to be your pet buddy if you can’t get home.

The Pets & your wellbeing guide covers the comfort animals bring, and caring for them through hard times.

Try the “My support network plan” worksheet.

Preparing together with neighbours

Strong neighbourhoods recover faster. Start with one knock on a door.

In a big disaster, the first help often comes from the people next door. Research on 60,000 disaster survivors found that weak or worn-down support networks made problems more likely afterwards.

Easy ways to start

  • Agree to check on each other when an alert comes
  • Learn who nearby may need extra help: older adults, people living alone, families with babies
  • Share skills: who has first aid training, a generator, a truck, tools
  • Swap phone numbers with two or three neighbours
  • Talk about plans at a faith group, club or tenants’ meeting

Community Emergency Response Team (CERT) programs teach basic disaster skills, so you can help your family and neighbours until professionals arrive.

Connection is one of the five things experts say helps people recover after disasters. Building it before you need it is a gift to your future self.

When and where to get help

Free help lines for disaster worry and crisis.

Worry about disasters is common, especially if you’ve lived through one. If fear of the next one keeps you from sleeping, working or enjoying life, it’s worth talking to someone.

Help lines (U.S.)

  • 211: local help with housing, food, bills and disaster resources
  • 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: call or text 988
  • Disaster Distress Helpline: call or text 1-800-985-5990, 24/7. Press 2 for Spanish; interpreters in over 100 languages; ASL users can connect through their preferred relay service

The Disaster Distress Helpline also supports people dealing with anniversaries and reminders of past disasters. You can call for yourself or for someone else.

Outside the U.S.? Find A Helpline (findahelpline.com) lists free, confidential helplines by country.

If you’re in crisis, call or text 988 (U.S.), or text HOME to 741741. If a life is in danger, call 911.

📝 Worksheets for this guide

Fill these in privately in the app. Your answers stay on your phone.

My disaster readiness & calm planPrepare your home and your mind, so you know what to do and how to steady yourself when a warning comes.
My grab-and-go checklistBuild your bag a little at a time. Note what you have and what’s still missing.
Our family reunification planIf disaster strikes while you’re apart, this is how everyone finds each other.
When a warning comes: my first stepsWrite your first moves down now, so you don’t have to think when your heart is racing.
My support network planList the people who will help you, and who you’ll help, when an emergency comes.
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Sources

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  2. Federal Emergency Management Agency (FEMA). Disaster Distress Helpline
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  8. Ready.gov (U.S. Department of Homeland Security / FEMA). Financial Preparedness
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  13. Ready.gov (U.S. Department of Homeland Security / FEMA). Floods
  14. Ready.gov (U.S. Department of Homeland Security / FEMA). Wildfires
  15. Ready.gov (U.S. Department of Homeland Security / FEMA). Volcanoes
  16. Ready.gov (U.S. Department of Homeland Security / FEMA). Tornadoes
  17. Ready.gov (U.S. Department of Homeland Security / FEMA). Extreme Heat
  18. Ready.gov (U.S. Department of Homeland Security / FEMA). Winter Weather
  19. Ready.gov (U.S. Department of Homeland Security / FEMA). Power Outages
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This guide is for education and self-care. It is not a diagnosis or a substitute for professional care. Please talk to a counselor or clinical provider about your health. Reviewed October 2026.

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